Whirlwind ride.....

It’s a funny world. I was talking to that boy again. And today was our first conversation on the phone, like a proper one. We spoke, and suddenly his phone died. I tried calling but no answer, it was mysteriously off. How could it be off? And after a good 15minutes I heard his voice once again on the phone, “HE was Alive!” I sighed a big relief, but hey guess what, he dropped his phone into the sink. And the first thing I said was, “I feel like I am a bad luck to you…..”, and he muttered, “if ure going to say something like this, next time don’t call me lahh.”… and I said, “no..thats not my intention. Nvm. Leave it.”

And he explained how it all started. Many months back, he saw me at a rehearsal, and he could recall me wearing a brown top, jeans and a black shoe and bag. And nx time he saw me was yet another rehearsal, some green top with jeans. And apparently all those times, this other senior male singer kept telling him that he was found a match for him. HE on the other hand shrugged it off. Things were going like this, and he met me once again at another show, a wedding at khalsa. I was dressed in a greenish silver saree. He said he didn’t like my blouse, ha ha, it was halter. But nvm that’s besides the point here. He totally admired me and liked me, den he went backstage and told that senior male that he liked me. That senior told him “Why are u waiting for, go and tell her then!”…. And he confided in another men, Sara, about how he felt, but Sara told him many things….
1. In terms of educational attainments…you guys are poles apart. Are u sure things can work out?
2. Family background wise…..
3. Personality wise…hmmmm
4. Height wise! Ha ha.

So our boy went home to think about it. But he still confessed he liked me a lot. The most appalling thing that I heard today was 1. he brought back the bottle I had drunk from , after our last emcee show, 2. he even brought home the tissue I had used to wipe. I was completely amazed, and kept asking what was that supposed to mean. He said it was for remembrance, when he doesn’t get to see me, he will see those items that I had once used.

Completely OMG. Is this a movie?? maybe thats deep liking....u know, u start to do crazy stuff...

Well a lot of things said, he has gone now to buy a new phone, I had to hang up cos mummy will be back. That’s the story so far. Its funny really. He told me he was really irritated with me at one point, when I told me there is a limit to disturbances you know. He felt like crap for that moment, cos no one had told him so, ever. He even told his dad, but after that he felt like it was a wakeup call, I had woken his senses and his thoughts up. He said that he had compared with so many other girls, but somehow it was very different working with me. Our personalities were different, and he claimed that I was very direct, this will deter any guy from proposing to me! Ha ha. Exactly the effect I had wanted…..:)

I told him I like ppl who are frank with me, and tell me what I asked them. I don’t like people who beat around the bush or play hide and seeks with me, cos I believe for a relationship to be healthy, any relationship for that matter, there must be adequate disclosure, at appropriate times definitely.. This will keep the bond strong and there will be trust fostered on both sides. And so our journey goes, this sat will be our big bday programme.
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